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smiletolerantly@awful.systemsto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What is the most controversial TV finale?
1·5 days agoIf you don’t mind saying, where in the show are you currently? Because depending on that, “MC last Minute heel turn” can mean drastically different things
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Say your partner is gone for around a week, and you're home alone. What are you going to do that you wouldn't normally with someone around?
15·7 days agoNah. She is a night-owl and always stays up for hours later than myself. Which makes it really hard to get up from the couch and go to bed for me in turn.
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Is there a Lemmy instance worth using yet?
13·7 days agoOK, so what you want is for other people to volunteer their time and money to keep an instance running. That, by itself, is honestly fine, and many people are happy to do so.
But you then also do not want to play by their rules. That part is not fine.
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Is there a Lemmy instance worth using yet?
11·7 days agoJust host your own instance.
Others are luckily always free to block you, but you do not need to worry about losing your account.
There is not really any downside to hosting your own instance either, thanks to federation, you get to participate in the wider Lemmy community as an equal member.
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsOPto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Intent recognition for HomeAssistant without an LLM?English
1·10 days agoActually… Just tried it. I am on 2025.10, so newer than what was mentioned there. It still does not understand any better than from what I remember. Bummer.
But hey, at least the acknowledge that there’s the need for something between dumb pattern matching and an LLM.
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsOPto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Intent recognition for HomeAssistant without an LLM?English
1·10 days agoHoly shit YES!
That article is from yesterday, and the relevant section is: https://www.home-assistant.io/blog/2025/10/22/voice-chapter-11/#improved-sentence-matching
Awesome to see improvements there. Thanks a lot for linking!
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsOPto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Try BentoPDF if you haven't / are unhappy with StirlingPDFEnglish
2·10 days agoOh wow, awesome!
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Besides self pleasure, how do you single men cope without months or years without sex?
4·11 days agoSounds like you never wanted to be friends, just fuck them.
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Besides self pleasure, how do you single men cope without months or years without sex?
9·11 days agoI’m almost sorry to be blunt, but…
Women don’t want to be chased. You’re a misogynist who has reduced women to “people to have sex with” in your own mind.
If you change that, you gain the possibility of actual connections, including intimacy, with them; if you don’t, you don’t. Either way it’s up to you if you want the status quo to continue or to improve.
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsOPto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Try BentoPDF if you haven't / are unhappy with StirlingPDFEnglish
1·11 days agoThank you for your sacrifice :D
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsOPto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Try BentoPDF if you haven't / are unhappy with StirlingPDFEnglish
3·11 days agoWhile I don’t like it, it’s not hidden either:
https://bentopdf.com/privacy.html
There should definitely be an option to disable this for self-hosting, but if it’s just a counter for how often each tool is used by all users combined… Eh…
(Stirling also has something similar)
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsto
Programmer Humor@programming.dev•POV: You're a programmer
18·11 days agoPrisoner Of War:
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsOPto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Try BentoPDF if you haven't / are unhappy with StirlingPDFEnglish
3·11 days agoWhy not open a PR to make it configurable? The maintainer is super active and friendly.
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsOPto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Intent recognition for HomeAssistant without an LLM?English
1·11 days agoThanks for the recommendation! That looks interesting indeed.
This entire topic is probably a sinkhole of complexity. It’s great to have somewhere to look for inspiration!
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsOPto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Try BentoPDF if you haven't / are unhappy with StirlingPDFEnglish
2·11 days agoYeah those are good points. Also noticed the CDN thing, it’s a bit annoying for a privacy-first project… But should be an easy fix 😄
Stirling’s backend is Java. So, yeah, heavy and slow sounds about right.
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsOPto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Try BentoPDF if you haven't / are unhappy with StirlingPDFEnglish
2·12 days agoAh, thanks for mentioning. Yep, they have a docker image; as mentioned, a nixpkg will be available soonTM; and frankly, you can just build / download the release artifacts and put them on any static host.
smiletolerantly@awful.systemsOPto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Intent recognition for HomeAssistant without an LLM?English
41·13 days agoPlease read the title of the post again. I do not want to use an LLM. Selfhosted is bad enough, but feeding my data to OpenAI is worse.

Yeah. I just put the media location on my nas, and that is being mirrored to hetzner.