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  • Everyone knows you’re not being nice, you’re trying to manipulate them.

    I was trying to be nice so they would want to be with me, not because I wanted to be nice.

    After that I worked on myself.

    worked on being more pleasant to be around.

    Just be nice to people and don’t expect anything

    show interest in other people’s hobbies - genuinely.

    Which worked. By being less self absorbed and focused on getting a girlfriend, I became someone who was attractive

    I see, so rather than trying to make people want to be with you by being nice, you should be nice to people and then they’ll be attracted to you. Uhh… wut? Sounds like you haven’t changed at all.

    trying to manipulate

    Which worked

    How is what you did “after” different from what you did “before”?